Tuesday, October 9, 2007

Beds are Burning

Funny, but Fuzzy and Pumpkin were NOT this cute when they were going at each other yesterday!  LOL

Today, we found out that friends of ours, who married 6 months before us, some 16 years ago, are having a major crisis in their marriage.

It has just made me feel so sad.  

It isn't shocking, they have had difficulties, but they made it this far, and I really thought they were doing much better.  They had sent some great pics from vacation over the summer, everyone seemed so happy.  :-/

Believe me, Hubby and I have had our difficulities, and marriage certainly is a job and an adventure, but I cannot imagine ever living without him.  I can't help but hope that they will find their way... but of course, I am realistic and know that the right thing for them, may be splitting.  

So sad, especially for the kids, 14 1/2 and 11.

I can't wait until Hubby gets home to give him a big hug!

Finally, the temperatures are dropping to a more seasonable level!  It is only 64 degrees today!  Yay!  Hopefully, the school won't be so hot at Back to School night! 

I love this cooler weather... it is the best.  Unfortunately, we may get some rain though. 

Hammer's Gal Pal is here visiting, and he is so happy.  Also, Fuzzy and Pumpkin went to are town center for pizza after their half day, and now are home here with DogBoy, too.  So, yes, you count right - 5 kids today!  LOL

My left middle finger seems to have some sort of sprain, very weird. 

Oh well, have a great day!

be well,



coelha said...

What have you been doing with that middle finger, missy?  LOL..  It is always sad to hear of marriages breaking up.  :(  Yesterday, the weather over here was awesome--today, totally overcast and cold..   Don't forget to give that hubby of yours a big hug!!  Julie :)

deshelestraci said...

So sad to hear about your friends!  I have a friend who I wish WOULD leave her husband.  But that's another story...

tenyearnap said...

Oh no! Not the middle finger!! Good thing you have a spare ;-)

stillh20z said...

have u been wavin' at people on the road with that finger???


astoriasand said...

Sorry to read about your friends Dawn.It is always sad when marriages break up.If they have tried then they cannot do no more I don't suppose.KIt does affect the children though,and it is a difficult ans senietive age which they are both at.I do hope things turn out well for them and if they split they split amicably.Love the graphics LOL.I hope your finger soon heals.Sound like you have knocked it back on something and maybe not noticed.5 children around you lcucky thing Yehhhh I love kids.LOL!! ENJOY and give hubby a big hug don't forget.Take Care God Bless Kath
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buggieboo1 said...

sorry about your finger!

~make it a great day!~

glensfork4 said...

What exactly are you using that middle finger for there Dawn??? LOL


pharmolo said...

Hope your friends will be able to sort things out after all, Dawn, but if beds are burning....

rdautumnsage said...

Sometimes life just gets the better of people and they find they have moved in different directions in their life. It seems people are less likely to try to make it work, before they call uncle these days. Then again I've been married twice already myself, and Doc knows I'm not looking for a 3rd. In my defense my first put me in a coma, and my 2nd was mentally abusive in every way possible. (Hugs) Indigo

jckfrstross said...

marriage is always hard:) something you have to work at everyday:) love the kitties have a good week


toonguykc said...

Marriage--or partnerships of any kind -- require a lot of work.  Hope it works out.


eml625 said...

Sorry to hear about your friends . I am loving  this cooler weather!

randlprysock said...

I am so sorry to hear about a possible split.  I know sometimes that is the best... but it still hurts and is so hard for all of them.  

erarein63 said...

Marriage is a job!  Every day, hour by hour, and minute by minute.  My job is to make sure DH makes it to the end of the day alive, lol.  Sorry about your friends.  Middle finger hmmmm?

gazker said...

People seem so surprised when I say Phil and I have been together like so long. You do have to work at it sometimes, but its never a chore. So sad when you here of people splitting up after such a long time.
Gaz xxx

tendernoggle said...

Awww...that is so sad about your friends...If they could only walk inmy shoes for one day...no...just one minute and feel the loss that I feel...but no...I wouldn't wish that feeling on anyone.
love ya,

nay0114 said...

I remember when our best friend who married one year after us split behind our backs. It was a crazy time. I cried all the time like it was my marriage. That's how close we were. Now the shoe is on the other foot and it's our marriage.
Take care, Chrissie

lurkynat said...

I'm so srry to hear it. maybe they will patch it up or maybe they will drift apart..
we will hope for the best for them..hugs,nat